If you've recently been diagnosed with ADHD—or you've been diagnosed for a while and are still trying to figure out what to do with that information—you've probably wondered whether you need a coach, a therapist, a doctor, or some combination of all three.

Here are some details about what each type of support can do, and what I specifically offer as an ADHD coach.

Most late-diagnosed women don't need to pick between therapy and coaching. They actually probably need both to support them in different ways.

Understanding the difference can help you use each one more intentionally.

What ADHD Coaching Actually Is

ADHD coaching is a collaborative, forward-focused partnership.

We're not digging into your childhood or trying to unearth the root causes of your patterns. That's important work, and it's what therapy is for.

Coaching starts from where you are right now and asks: given everything you know about yourself and your brain, what do you want your life to look like, and how do we build that together?

Coaching IS:

• A partnership built around you: your goals, your values, and your version of a life that works

• An exploration of your strengths and how your ADHD brain actually operates, not how it's the world tells you it’s “supposed” to

• Nervous system education: understanding what's happening in your body and brain so you can work with it rather than against it

• Practical tools and systems designed around your real life, your energy patterns, and your capacity

• Somatic and body-based practices that help you regulate, rest, and show up more fully

• A space to release shame, build self-trust, and figure out who you are now that you have the truth

• Accountability and support that meets you where you are, not where you think you should be

Coaching is NOT:

• Therapy: We won't be processing trauma or diagnosing anything (and if trauma work is what you need, I'll always say so and support you in finding the right person)

• Prescriptive advice or one-size-fits-all systems: What works for a neurotypical brain often doesn't work for yours, and I understand that

• Encouraging you to operate in a neurotypical way

• A replacement for medication, psychiatric care, or medical support

• A quick fix: Real change takes time, and sustainable change takes even longer. We build slowly and we build to last.

What Makes This Coaching Different

A lot of ADHD coaching is focused on systems, productivity, and executive function tools. And those things matter. But for late-diagnosed women—women who have spent decades masking, overcompensating, and internalizing the message that something was wrong with them—strategy alone isn't enough.

My coaching is nervous system-informed. That means we start with your body, not your to-do list.

We look at how your nervous system actually operates—whether you tend toward hyperactivation (always on, running on adrenaline and urgency), shutdown and freeze (stuck, foggy, can't start), or cycling between both. We build practices that regulate your nervous system first, because the strategies to help you will only work if your brain and body feel safe enough to access them.

We also look at your life holistically. Daily movement, nutrition, sleep, somatic tools, and mindfulness all play a role in your wellbeing. These are not just “self-care” or optional add-ons. They provide genuine neurological support for your ADHD brain. How you fuel and care for your body directly affects how your brain functions.

We also do the deeper identity work. Oftentimes, the woman who was diagnosed later in life isn’t merely looking to “get organized”. She’s figuring out who she really is without the mask, what a life on her own terms looks like, and how to stop living by rules that were never made for her brain.

That's what we're building together.

What About Therapy?

Therapy and coaching are different tools that do different things. Therapy (particularly trauma-informed therapy) is often the right place to process the pain of a late diagnosis, work through childhood experiences, and heal relational wounds. If that work is calling you, I will always encourage you to pursue it and I'll support you in finding someone great.

Coaching is where we take what you're learning about yourself—in therapy, through your diagnosis, through your own reflection—and build something new with it. We're not looking backward. We're building forward.

Many of my clients work with both a therapist and a coach at the same time. The two modalities complement each other beautifully. Therapy helps you understand and heal. Coaching helps you build and move.

If you're not sure which you need right now, let's talk. A free discovery call is a no-pressure conversation and I'll always be honest with you about what I think will serve you best—even if that means pointing you somewhere else first.